Pictures from a great weekend. My last gasp of freedom before the orange election.

From the time I was a kid and I barely knew anything about my own sexuality or gender (I’m gay and non-binary and just to give you an...

The most expensive article of clothing reserved for the sluttiest, lowliest of uses. Turning the Tables | Shoes & Shirt Stolen | Marking...

The sight of a suit plastered to the body with water always allures everyone. It's the taboo of ruining a garment that we're told to keep...

I have been experimenting with a new format for the site, in which all posts (member fiction, origin stories, my own fiction, and my own...

A conversation with @CityBossUK : I love this fantasy, the notion that these rough "straight" guys are just waiting for the right suited...

One of the most common suit and tie fetish themes involves fantasizing about straight men who are as passionate about suits and ties as...

When I turned 37, I told myself I would set boundaries with people. When I turned 38, I told myself I would I would embrace being a...

These are the notes I prepared for my recent interview with the ThiccRadio Podcast. Stannum (James), who co-hosts ThiccRadio with...

This is a consolidated Mastodon thread I posted last week. I spent much of my 20s and 30s convinced that, as a suit and tie fetishist in...

These are the notes I prepared for my recent interview with the Kinky Boys Podcast. Whereas my interview with The Bondage Gaze was...

@ThoughtfulFetishist and @SubStandardSammy may nor may not have interviewed me for a certain kinky podcast recently. They wrote the...

This is a dark time for queer people. In the United States, conservatives’ assault on trans and nonbinary people has escalated into a...

Screenshot from a handsome Instagrammer who describes himself in his profile as a "Footwear enthusiast." But he isn't gay, of course. ...

I have written posts that attempt to untangle some of the complexities of masculinity and body image issues, my wishes that the suit &...

In a post from a while back, a leather instagram account asked followers about the role that leather plays in the LGBTQIA+ community. The...

Dressed to the nines, and nowhere to go. That seems to be the incongruity of it: cooped up in their home offices, menswear enthusiasts...

"The thing about a tuxedo is that it is virile and feminine at the same time." -- Catherine Deneuve. New year's has come and gone. I am...

Capnolagnia. Another form of paraphilia. I’m not sure whether the suit and tie fetish has a clinical name yet, but I suppose there are as...

For as long as I can remember, I had a fascination with suits and ties. I suppose the suits came first, almost before knowing that it was...