To the left: a portrait of me done by @Valcoviac.

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I'm a married cis gay man (pronouns: he/his) who is really turned on by suits and ties. They are my primary fetish. I have other interests, as well: leather, bondage, wet and messy, muscle growth, hypnosis. These are all kinks that I explore through my blog and fiction, and through conversations with kinky folks across various social media platforms.

 

I began my suit and tie fetish journey by joining Recon back in 2004. Since then, members of the suit and tie fetish community have attempted to maintain multiple sites to act as a hub of the community: the old MenAtPlay forums; the Suit and Tie Fetish Network on Ning; SuitMen; SuitedGays; SuitFetish; suit fetish groups on Yahoo, Flickr, Tumblr, Facebook, Discord, Twitter, and Instagram. I have been through them all. And the experience is always the same: the community thrives for a while, and then gets deplatformed.

Although I frequently compare the suit and tie community to larger kink communities like leather, uniforms, and rubber, I find that we are a small, widely scattered group of people. Sure, many guys think of suits and ties as sexy, but it's quite rare to find any guys who are into suits and ties specifically. So this site is both an attempt to house my own fiction, and act as an archive for members of the suit and tie fetish community.

I am passionate about this fetish because it is central to my queerness. I realize that other LGBTQIA+ people are into all kinds of other things, and I support whatever kink you are into. Even if suits and ties aren't your main thing, I hope you find something here that speaks to you.